You broke the rest of me too

February 22, 2026





You didn’t just break my heart 
You broke the rest of me too
And then I spent a lifetime
Dreaming after you

Hoping for somebody
Exactly like you
You really felt like a vision
Too good to be true

You said I was fun
Instead of saying goodbye
You dismissed all my dreaming
In the breath of a sigh

I still know how to love
But I forgot how to fall
Another leap of faith
Could be the end of it all


by Richard W. Bray

You don’t have to read about the fall of Rome

February 10, 2026

Put your phones in the fridge
Cuz it’s time to tell the truth
They’re destroying our families
They violate our youth

They got teletype readers
And knuckleheaded minions
They made it illegal
To have an opinion

Politicians bought and sold
In the blink of a flash
They’d sell their mother’s soul
For a handful of cash

They mortgaged off the future
And partied like fools
Every 5 minutes
They make up new rules

They got as much honor
As the Easter Bunny
Now they wanna pay us back
With Monopoly money

You don’t have to read
About the fall of Rome
Just look what they did
To our beautiful Home


by Richard W. Bray

So What’s the Big Deal About Influencer Marketing?

January 25, 2026

When I First Discovered the Power of Influencers

I will never forget the first time I saw someone playing slot machines on their own television. It was about five years ago, during Covid. I asked her if the site she was using was affiliated with a major casino, and if she knew what percentage of the money gambled was paid out in winnings.

My friend said that it was an offshore company that she didn’t know anything about and she wasn’t sure what the payoff rates were. I was flabbergasted that anyone would use their credit card to gamble when they had no assurance that it was a legitimate operation.

I tried to conceal my incredulity as I asked: “What reason do you have to believe that you have any chance of actually winning money?”

She said: “An influencer that me and my friends like recommended this site.” Apparently, that was good enough for her.

So What’s an Influencer?

According to my friend Gemini, an influencer is “an individual with the power to affect the purchasing decisions, opinions, or behaviors of others due to their authority, knowledge, position, or relationship with their audience.”

For marketers, finding the right influencer to endorse your product can be extremely lucrative. It’s common to hear people boast about ROIs of over $5 for every $1 spent.

Many influencers initially gained notoriety as actors, musicians, athletes, models, and television personalities like Selana Gomez, The Kardashians, Cardi B, Taylor Swift, Beyonce, Amber Rose, Cristiano Ronaldo, and Lionel Messi.

Another group of influencers came into prominence as creators, people who develop high-quality content, such as blogs, memes, and videos.

Targeting Is the Key to Influencer Marketing

There are two main strategies for marketers when it comes to finding people who may be interested in purchasing the goods and services you have to offer:

  1. Casting a wide net through traditional forms of media such as billboards and tv ads and hoping to entice a small percentage of that audience to buy your product.
  2. Targeting people who may already be inclined to buy what you’re selling or people who are actively seeking what you have to offer through strategies like direct mail, inbound marketing, and influencer marketing.

Because targeting is a major component of influencer marketing, audience size is much less important than other factors, such as trust, connectedness, expertise, and authenticity.  

For example, Ronaldo and Messi each have over half a billion Instagram followers, but they probably wouldn’t be a marketer’s first choice for endorsing beauty and skin care products.

In the early days of internet marketing, many marketers who were looking to cast a wide net became infatuated with the notion of going viral. The limited efficacy of this strategy became widely apparent after Evian launched its hugely popular Roller Babies campaign in 2009.  

As marketer Luke Sullivan notes:

It’s no surprise their online video featuring diaper-wearing babies on rollerblades might produce 80 million views. But…Evian sales plummeted by 25 percent…Apparently, roller-skating babies have nothing to do with selling water (1).

According to author and fitness influencer Amanda Russell, viral “is a wildly empty metric….A social post can rack up huge numbers and still not drive any sort of meaningful action. A bunch of eyeballs does not equate to impact, and being the hot topic of conversation isn’t the same as being trustworthy” (2).

Amanda goes on to say: “People assume 10,000 followers are better than 1,000 followers…but it’s just not the case. It’s the loyalty, support and engagement of that following that matters most” (3).

According to Nate Jones, an executive for the Nex Gen practice of UTA Entertainment marketing, “zeroing in on micro-communities can be a more cost-effective and targeted strategy,” than “working with attention-grabbing social media stars such as Alix Earle, MrBeast or Kai Cenat” (4).

What Are People Looking for in an Influencer?

There are influencers for just about any type of interest or activity you can think of, including mommy bloggers, NASCAR dads, fishing aficionados, and beauty product vloggers. What people are looking for when they choose an influencer is:

  • Knowledge
  • Authenticity
  • Engaging content

Being an influencer doesn’t require credentialed authority in a particular field. That’s why “an influencer does not have to be an expert like a dermatologist to give skincare advice, as long as they are a consistent content creator about the topic of skincare.” (5)

Video Content Rules

Although blogging, making personal appearances, books sales, and other activities can all be an important part of the influencer’s toolkit, we’ve come to an age where video content rules, whether it appears on TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, X, LinkedIn, Snapchat, or any other social media channel.  

According to Atlantic Monthly contributor Derek Thompson, these days Everything Is Television.

By “television,” I am referring to something bigger than broadcast TV, the cable bundle, or Netflix….Social media has evolved from text to photo to video to streams of text, photo, and video, and finally, it seems to have reached a kind of settled end state, in which TikTok and Meta are trying to become the same thing: a screen showing hours and hours of video made by people we don’t know. (6)

by Richard W. Bray

  1. Luke Sullivan. Hey, Whipple, Squeeze This: The Classic Guide to Creating Great Ads, p 191
  2. Amanda Russell. The Influencer Code: How to Unlock the Power of Influencer Marketing, p 41,
  3. Amanda Russell. The Influencer Code: How to Unlock the Power of Influencer Marketing, p 4
  4. Gillian Follet. Why brands are turning to local leaders–not just social stars–the to build trust and connection, AdAge, August 1, 2025.
  5. Holly Frew. New Research Unveils Key Strategies for influencer authenticity, Georgia State News Hub, February 20,2025
  6. Derek Thompson. Everything Is Television. Derek Thompson dot org, October 10,2025  

				

Played Out Retromania

January 16, 2026

We wrote down recipes 
And kept em in a box
Magic and Stockton
Had really long socks

Retromania
Boomer egomania
Singing in the rainia
On a plain in Spainia


The olden days
We're golden days
Bless those vintage bygone ways

Time to break the chainia
Pour it down the drainia
Before we go insania
With played out retromania


We sang some happy true songs
And broken-hearted blue songs
Now it's time for new songs

Time to break the chainia
Pour it down the drainia
Before we go insania
With played out retromania


by Richard W. Bray

Don’t be a stupid needy Nimrod

January 8, 2026


You've been acting pretty odd
Just like a stupid needy Nimrod

Frustrating friends and your relations
With all your crazy expectations


I can’t paddle your canoe,
Wipe your nose and tie your shoe

Frustrating friends and your relations
With all your crazy expectations


You whine and then you whinny
Like you’re a goofy little ninny

Frustrating friends and your relations
With all your crazy expectations


Always jumping to conclusions
To support your lame delusions

Frustrating friends and your relations
With all your crazy expectations


Thinking truth is what you feel
Take a look at life for real

Frustrating friends and your relations
With all your crazy expectations


by Richard W. Bray

she loves me like a penguin

December 30, 2025


she knows everything about me
and we've never even spoken
if she ever stops following
everything will be broken

she loves me like a penguin
she always follows me around
she waves her little penguin wings
all over town


you know i've always had a notion
love is really just devotion
when she wiggles cross the ocean
she warms up the arctic night

she loves me like a penguin
and you know birdies mate for life
she loves me like a penguin
and penguin love is pretty nice


by Richard W. Bray

The spirit of the trees comes out at night 

December 20, 2025

The universe is charged and wondrous
Feel the force that floats among us
Resist the anger hate and greed
Only take the love you need

The spirit of the trees comes out at night
Dogs and children see the hidden light


Dynasties will rise and fall
Nothing's written on the wall
Seeking truth out day by day
We stagger on our wanting way

The spirit of the trees comes out at night
Dogs and children see the hidden light


Every breath is blessed and free
Share the joy and dignity
Love and kindness never cease
Live with hope and work for peace

The spirit of the trees comes out at night
Dogs and children see the hidden light


by Richard W. Bray

Frazzle Pazzle

December 6, 2025

Whackadoodle 
Walk your poodle
Eat a noodle
With some strudel

Whoopsie daisy
Love your crazy
Loopy lazy
Doesn't faze me

Hunky dory
Drive your lorry
Sing a story
Don't ignore me

Under over
Four-leaf clover
Cliffs of Dover
Play with Rover

Prince and pauper
Lemon dropper
Happy hopper
Never stop her

Razzle dazzle
Frazzle pazzle

Words unravel
Happy travels

by Richard W. Bray

Fight Yourself or Fight the Sea

December 3, 2025

Cold deep dark and absolutely clear,
Elizabeth Bishop

Cold and clear
Wet and dark
Impossibly near
Deep and far

Water and salt
Freezes and burns
Lunar attraction
Always returns

Fight yourself
Or fight the sea
Heroic and Stupid
Never quite free

Endless and certain
Absolute
A tree is a man
With a brain in its root

by Richard W. Bray

Attention is the air I breathe

November 15, 2025

No memory of having starred
Atones for later disregard,
Or keeps the end from being hard.

Robert Frost

You're the water
I'm Narcissus
You're the source
Of all my wishes
When the pool
Begins to dry
That's when I
Begin to die

Everybody, look at me
Attention is the air I breathe


When my latest
Book won't sell
It's like the deepest
Ring of hell
People won't
Return my calls
Like Icarus
I fall and fall

Everybody, look at me
Attention is the air I breathe


I used to be
Among the guys
That everyone
Would recognize
Invisible
And seized with pain
As seasons turn
And fashions change

Everybody, look at me
Attention is the air I breathe


by Richard W. Bray